 Re: Need some direction
You know, there are no rules written about this, it's individual to each couple and to even each person in the relationship. The trick will be finding where that comfort zone is agreeable to everyone involved. Some may be more comfortable with crossing the line in "who" is a couple while others may want to keep more of their own original couple identity. This is something that will naturally evolve in your relationship, so I wouldn't worry too much about having it all worked-out before you go further. Bring it up if you need to, but don't dwell on it. There isn't any immediate answer to this question and what that answer is today may not be what it is tomorrow.
Vague answer, huh? But your relationship will evolve by itself. Just keep the lines of communication open so that anyone can talk anytime about anything that might be bothering them.
Mr. WS
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