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Old 01-22-2008, 09:07 PM   #15 (permalink)
big_ems
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 4
Location: Jackson, MI
Status: Couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:big_ems

big_ems hasn't quite let us get to know them yet.
Default Re: Why can't I be included?

I have been talking to the wife of the couple on yahoo messenger. My wife has met both of them at her store, but hasn't had time to sit and talk to them. I know she is real, and who I am talking to, because of the way she types, and the kind of work she does. Her husband is a farmer, and is out farming, or working on equipment during the day. She works in an office, with a computer, and talks on it at work. These people are real. They have been swingers for 25 years, so they say. I have talked to other couples in their area, and they talk highly of them.

They're excuse is that since my wife is new to swinging, they should be able to coach her in that way, and that she might open up to them differently, than if I was there. In a way it makes sense, in a way it doesn't. Wife told me, even if she does consider swinging, we are doing it together.
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