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Old 01-22-2008, 07:29 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Why can't I be included?

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Originally Posted by big_ems View Post
She has told me that she wanted me there while they screwed, but the couple says no way. What should I do?
Respect your wife's wishes and expect the same from the other couple. If she wants you there, but they don't, then move on. There are other fish in the sea.

This is a couple I wouldn't touch with a 10-foot pole. You guys have to play YOUR WAY. I wouldn't put up with ultimatums. If your wife wanted to play alone - and you supported that - I'd say go for it; just don't expect the three of them ever to invite you into the picture - you may be in for a let down.

But since she doesn't want to play without you, then there really isn't an issue here.

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