The Swingers Board - View Single Post - We were swinging while dating, now married and she has changed her mind

`Aro · 03-28-2003, 12:00 AM

And think of what you said about feeling "cheated".

As a participant in a previous 22 yr marriage ( i prefer victim to participant ) I can say..that any feelings you have about her changes after marriage will only grow on you. Thats just a fact of life. If you resent that cheated feeling now..do you think it will get better or worse over time??

If you cant live with yourself..you cant live with anyone else.

03-28-2003, 12:00 AM	#14 (permalink)
`Aro Registered Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 5 Location: swmich nwind Status: couple ;)	be selfish for a minute... And think of what you said about feeling "cheated". As a participant in a previous 22 yr marriage ( i prefer victim to participant ) I can say..that any feelings you have about her changes after marriage will only grow on you. Thats just a fact of life. If you resent that cheated feeling now..do you think it will get better or worse over time?? If you cant live with yourself..you cant live with anyone else.