[gatorvol64]

I thought I would give an update to our poly situation.

Good, very good. We've all made some great strides in our relationship. Most of problems were basically communication issues it seems. I think communication within a quad is even more important than a diad if that is possible. Multiple 2 people and how important communication is by 2 more people. Things are really going great right now and we are happier than we've been in a while. Our biggest problem right now is seeing each other as much as we'd like. Moving closer together is most definitely something we hope to accomplish in the near future. We've been discussing moving in together. That is a better solution but not as feasible right now. Partly due to most of our families not knowing about the extent of our relationship. That is something we are slowly working on revealing. I have to say (especially for someone who would never have considered this for herself) that I feel extremely lucky to have the amount of love I do from two wonderful men. And the friendships of the women and men are a great thing, too.

We still have things to address but, we are really getting there.

Vol