[Averygoodgirl]

Let me attempt to respond in terms you can (I hope) understand, LM321.
1. I am not here to be attacked (How rare and funny you feel the need to do so, I must cause you to feel incompetent or belittled to show your fangs to someone you don't even know.)
2. My BF did/dose want me to f*uck and I do. That alone WOULD make me A very good girl (just ask your husband). I guess the correlation is difficult for you to figure out though huh.
3. Your assumptions only reveal your own views on the men you have been lying with. As I have NEVER stated I have been or would ever allow someone to mistreat me. I said he "feared" I would become desperate.
4. Your correct the whole situation has not been divulged but seeing that I don't feel the need to HIDE behind the cyber persona and not reveal myself, I will tell. But just for a little lesson in manners...if you want to know something hunny just ask. It's been my experience in interactions with people that only liars think and accuse EVERYONE else of lying.

5. I developed early (9) C cup. By 11 I was 4'3, 95lbs and I was a DD. From age 12-14 I would say I was a cock tease.
I lost my virginity on my birthday, while drunk.... to a friend of my older brother. While continuing a loose fling I also continued to see and play with other guys. Driving guys wild in anticipation for just my attention was very astonishing. He (my first and bed buddy) caught me out in a park with a guy having a very romantic lunch. Not causing a scene he sat down and joined us. Being my first real relationship with two men (at once) it lasted for 3 years.

6. My next almost perfect relationship was 6 years ago. I met my ex fiance through a girl friend and the next day I was dating him and his best friend, they were also roommates. It was divine going out w/ S by day and enjoying R all evening, on the weekends we would run all over town together like the 3 musketeers. Wind up at their place to cook and clean until I was taken home Sun afternoons. For R to sleep the rest of the night with me. After 3 months S showed he was unhappy by trying to have me choose. (He was over all the better choice...but he would talk badly about R when he wasn't around.) That Fri night during our threesome S winked and reached out for R's privates causing R to quickly leave S's king sized bed. I flipped off the bed and spent the rest of the night and the year w/ R. R and S regained their friendship 2 yrs later S and I don't talk and though things didn't work out for R and I, we are friends and I am on the fence about opting to reopen things between us for this ultimate relationship.

7. My BF travels for work often. He wanted swinging prior to that job and as my SLS profile states we did it. When he got the new job that has him away from home so often it became his desire for the relationship to move toward a wife share situation so I would be taken care of sexually while he was away. We (my lover's & I) would film our sessions for him to view with me and while traveling. After 2 very special long term "friends" relocated to different States I became less interested in our situation. I began pushing away men the moment they began to develop feelings for me.

8. As for my other accounts... myBF in SLS I believe is MY and only MINE to share with other people. I did state it was "just changed" and the comment while stated by my man about me wanting to filled it would still be an accurate statement. The whole point of asking for advice however was not to be torn down but to get idea's on how to delicately spin what he likes about me w/ out sounding like a disease whore. I love him so I thought I would try being supportive than just shut down his crude attempts at getting involved in "our" online profile by getting advice. Funny, his statement is less offensive to me than the complete sexually repressed tirade by LM321. But it is abundantly obvious that California is more sexually open than the rest of the country, hence why more sex clubs and involved people in this State Compared to the rest of the country. Let's not forget tune in drop out and free love of my parents generation beginning in Berkley, CA.

9. My stance on SLS officially is that it is a forum mostly comprised of lesbian women. Seeing how I am not one I could understand why LM321 is so upset with me. It must be strange to be confronted with a woman who not only likes men, but loves cock and craves sex often. But that may also be because I am only 30 and have had males at my whim since 13. I love me, my life, and my sex drive I am pretty darn good at it as all of my ex's are still in my life if only as friends and relationship coaches when I get frustrated. But a select few are lover's for the past 10 years and will be unless they settle down. If you look again you can see SLS was the 1st profile as it states we would play with my ex's. I only met 1 guy I really liked and met in person on there and in Dec. he was done with his military duty and went home to KY. He was perfect for wife share and stated he would have loved to move in had he'd been here longer. Saying g'bye was so darn hard, I never realized I was so attached in only 8 Mo. The problem with SLS was not attracting the wrong guys, but that was almost ALL couples and they wanted me, not swap. Two however did want me to share their men but I was not attracted to their older out of shape men.

10. Which brings me to WS, thank you ever so much for your more diplomatic stance. Your advice about preference however I feel is very crucial. I am not a simple wall flower of a girl that is lucky to get noticed by a man, I walk out my front door and within the 15 foot walk from my front door of my APT to my car I am complimented and told how todays clothes are much more appealing than this weekends cleaning outfit that as always I am hott, fine, gorgeous, beautiful by 4-8 single male neighbors nearly every single day. I also had 1 couple down the way ask me if I would like to join them for a threesome.

11. Being attracted to your mate is so important, Just the sound of a mates voice or looking at him can make me uncontrollably wet. I just give my BF a simple delicate kiss as I am walking by from room to room... it gets and keep him hard until he gets up and walks around. Sometimes when he's in the kitchen helping with dishes....that's ultra rare considering work has him away all the time. But sometimes he will look over his shoulder at me and ooooh, I have to have him right then the look in his eyes the bulge of his muscles, how broad his back is and his tight butt. mmm mmm mmmm! I like my men to look like 4th yr Marines. Most of my men have been military, bouncers or police always fit and built. You don't let yourself go if your inlove w/ your partner, their smile let alone their expressed passion for you can completely lite your spirit with joy. A man who dose not up keep himself has low self esteem, why would I want to spend all my time lifting him up? It's not sexy to be a guys momma. BELIEVE me regardless of what my profile says, endless amounts of 50 somethings with guts like buick's still try to get my attention. I would ask of you to reconsider after my statements so that I can figure it out. I read swingersboard and it seemed to say not to post ad's here, so that's why I was asking for advice SLS is my jumping bord.

12. I agree with you for the most part that less is more, however in consideration of a sex site it has been my experience that strait forward weeds out the duds quickly... 1 night stand guy dose not bother when he see' long term, serious, committed. When I have met guys I liked at my mechanic's, Costco, Walgreen's, bar and grill for drinks w/ friends... discretion and simplicity which comes across as mysterious just draws them in more and seems to be my best strategy.

13. Tribbles... I must say your idea is where I have been most of my time. All of my ex's were from friends introductions, work, school, family social events but none from the internet. But in all fairness I have made a few really great friends from online including 2 best friends.

14. I am direct and to the point, this is what I want...from whom...how often.... I believe the statement about being filled could be seen as being playful. But considering that I take my time getting to know a person from where, how they live, to how many siblings and how they get along w/ their parents, even when is their b'day. Then I actually go for a lunch date in a popular eatery w/ my baby to keep things easy going but also giving me an out if I'm not attracted to him. Then a second date for dinner or drinks a week or two later when our lives will permit. Before taking things to a intimate situation. The way I like to play it out it will be a month before he will know how much muscle control I have but in 4 weeks it seems to be a good amount of time to connect people to one another and if he's all about sex BELIEVE ME... he can't help making it known quickly. As every thing about me from my mind set, figure, clothing style to my voice is extremely sensual.

I am sorry it took me so long to respond to each of you, it took me a moment to compose myself after the complete shock of such disturbing and down right rude comments from LM321. My best advice for you dear, would be what my father would say when I was a child.... if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all!

Kisses,
-J