It felt like I was reading a screenplay, and a very well-written one. Punching the guy out is like something from a movie afterall, funny in the theatre, but not at all funny in real life.
I glanced over some of your previous posts, they're all long - although good reads - and you've described yourself as
jealous, overly protective and have a problem with anger. I'd say you have the three main ingredients for a loser swinger.
Swinging isn't going to work for you if you can't overcome these personality obstacles. Maybe it's your youth, let's hope so, but if you hold on to these same traits as you grow older you're unlikely to run into guys who'll take a couple punches to the noggin' as nicely as the "chic-flick-gay-love" guy did. You don't know how damn lucky you were in that situation.
I don't think you've read enough on the Board about the rules of swinging. You don't have the basics understood.
You're 21, or there abouts, and you probably don't want to hear me say "wait until you grow up" and then give swinging a try again (maybe in 5 years), but that's all I can suggest.
Ave, you need to grow up and mature - learn a lot more about swinging - if you ever hope to handle the complexity of swinging.
LM
Edit: Since I love creative writing, I think if ever you decide to become a screenwriter this story would be great to include in a movie. I think Hugh Grant would be perfect for the guy you punched out, Brad Pitt could play you, and your girlfriend I picture as Mira Sorvino...all in their younger years, of course. I don't have a pick for Hugh's girlfriend, but she would be a brunette.
