 Re: My Current Predicament
First off, hitting the other guy was way out of line. You said yourself that it was his and his girl's last night together. It's perfectly understandable he'd want to be with her. They may have thought the foursome was an exciting idea, but weren't ready for the reality. Or he could simply not have been into your girlfriend. The reason is irrelevant. The tears are irrelevant. If you really want to swing, you have to accept that it won't always go the way you're hoping for. To find four people who are all attracted to each other isn't easy. Add the reality of having sex together with each other's SO is even tougher.
And no offense, but you really don't sound like you're quite ready to be swinging. Not just because you hit the guy, but because of your approach. NO means NO. Period. Even if it's someone else's suggestion to play, the moment any person says no it's over. Yes, rejection smarts. And your girlfriend getting so upset about it shows she's not really ready either.
Everyone makes mistakes, and as long as you take it on the chin and learn from them, there's hope. Best of luck to ya'll.
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