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Old 01-15-2008, 10:21 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: My Current Predicament

My first thought after reading this is that you are way too immature to be swinging. What happened here had nothing to do with the other guy or couple but with your own immaturity. When it comes to swinging there is no such thing as a sure thing. It doesn't matter who brings it up, if someone says no, it means no (kinda like dating).

If your gf felt rejected and you got upset because you saw her crying that is NO REASON to punch a guy (in the head or otherwise). If anything you could knock on the door and say "hey my gf is feeling rejected because we were really hoping to have a foursome and now she's crying, do you think you could help me out?". As for the guy going on and on about how great his girl is, I'd hope he would, I wouldn't want to swing with a couple where they didn't really appreciate each other.
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