 Re: My Current Predicament
Well, I can clearly see where you guys made a few mistakes, but I think those are going to be pointed out by the other members of the board. I think it's important not to get too self-righteous about thinking that us "experienced" swingers would do it so much better than you. I've certainly met couples who've easily done things just as silly - and they definitely should have known better!
I think you've been brutally honest in your retelling of the story, and that's where I wanted to comment. You're a great writer, and in truth, you cracked me up with your story.
What you need to always keep in mind is that every ingredient in the recipe for a foursome is a human being. They have their own objectives, their own fears. Something to remember: It's not about you. Nor is it about your girlfriend.
Why don't you just keep looking for someone else to get your swapping jollies? I suggest finding someone you don't need to have a friendship with. That way, if things go south, you don't have to have all the drama, you just move on.
Good luck.
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