[JustAskJulie]

So what did you tell your wife when she asked about it? Did you lie and say that you clicked the box on accident? Or what?

I know you were hoping to get feedback from people who have gone through telling their wives about their interest (and hopefully you still will get those answers as I think it's a great question). Unfortunately, at this point those answers won't do you much good. I think that you really wanted to tell your wife and you are scared to do so and subconsciously you opted to tell her through your profile, now all you have to do is back that up verbally.