[WesternSwing]

We've never had the V-thing because I'm not bi, and therefore I have no interest in playing with her boyfriends.

Now I've never had a serious relationship with another woman outside my marriage (like Mrs. WS has with men), but I've had several "girlfriends" which have been sex only, and with three of them Mrs. WS has never joined us because, although bi, she was not interested in two of them sexually, and one she has a history with dating back to high school and to her that is just tough to blend sex into it now.