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Averygoodgirl · 12-31-2007, 04:41 AM

In two previous relationships I fell by luck into a poly situations. This relationship however we have actively tried to a lot of waisted time. Mostly by dealing with men that are not understanding of our relationship and either are trying to swoop in to replace him "because he is a fool to share me", thinking I am a lying cheater because he travels A LOT for work, or the whole thing is too strange and they aren't comfortable with him knowing and being around. "I wanted to give you two some time together because he's in town".

I hate to admit it but it actually puts a level of stress on our relationship. His frustration it will never work, all the guys in the area are lame, don't get desperate any guy is not worth quality. Oy vey! And my lack of sex that has me over sensitive and feeling unattractive because I can't seem to seduce men into doing what I want when I want.

I have taken to not looking for couples...it wasn't what "we" were really wanting anyway. I have recently updated our acct.s on AFF and SLS to more directly state what we are wanting sexually I can only hope it will improve our results. Because at this rate I have only had sex 5 times in the past 3 Mo.

If you have any advice on how to better gain satisfaction I would be ever so thankful!

12-31-2007, 04:41 AM	#1 (permalink)
Averygoodgirl Registered Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Fresno, Ca. Status: Couple SLS Name:myboyfriendwantsme2fukyou	Slightly frustrated In two previous relationships I fell by luck into a poly situations. This relationship however we have actively tried to a lot of waisted time. Mostly by dealing with men that are not understanding of our relationship and either are trying to swoop in to replace him "because he is a fool to share me", thinking I am a lying cheater because he travels A LOT for work, or the whole thing is too strange and they aren't comfortable with him knowing and being around. "I wanted to give you two some time together because he's in town". I hate to admit it but it actually puts a level of stress on our relationship. His frustration it will never work, all the guys in the area are lame, don't get desperate any guy is not worth quality. Oy vey! And my lack of sex that has me over sensitive and feeling unattractive because I can't seem to seduce men into doing what I want when I want. I have taken to not looking for couples...it wasn't what "we" were really wanting anyway. I have recently updated our acct.s on AFF and SLS to more directly state what we are wanting sexually I can only hope it will improve our results. Because at this rate I have only had sex 5 times in the past 3 Mo. If you have any advice on how to better gain satisfaction I would be ever so thankful!