Corinne,
You have asked a question that all men wonder about at one time or another. We are all told that penis size doesn't matter but we don't know whether or not to believe it. Worse than that we are told "it's not the size but what you do with it". Well, while this may be true, we all know that when talking about how pleasurable is a large penis this argument is not logically sound. Really what is being asked by the question "does penis size matter" is "if both guys use their penises equally well, does a bigger penis feel better". Further, most men really don't know what an average sized penis is. All of the statistics that we get are conflicting..ranging from 5.1 inches (UCSF study) to 6.4 inches (kiersy study). 1.3 inches doesn't seem like much by itself, but if you think in terms of percentage, a man with a 6.4 inch penis is 25% larger than a man with a 5.1 inch penis. That's a pretty big difference. (As a side bar, for those guys who are concerned, the UCSF study is more likely to be accurate as it was performed by a doctor who had measured his patients. The Kiersy study was done with participants being self-selected and self-measured without supervision). The conclusion here is that we all think about it and we are never quite sure what to believe.
As a prior poster said, we all would love to have a couple more inches and most of us feel that we would be better in bed if we did. There isn't much (if anything) that you can do to change that feeling in your husband. What you can do is make it clear that 1. your husband makes you feel better than anyone else sexually, regardless of penis size and 2. that you really enjoy his penis. I know what you are thinking, what is the difference between 1 and 2. With 1 you are talking about the fact that no one can please you as much as him because you are making love to him, not just sex. 2 talks about the fact that taken strickly sexually, his penis is very pleasurable. You could even go as far as to compliment it (our penises like compliments more than we do, haha).
I find that my wife finding pleasure in a large penised man is not threatening to me because I am aware that no matter what it can never be as pleasurable as what I can do for her.
I do have a side question for the men though. And you'll forgive me Corinne if I am highjacking your post. I think that it is relevant to your question. I'd like to know how the other guys feel about men with larger penises having sex with their wives and how these men feel about having sex with the wife of a man with a larger penis?
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