I have to agree with CanadianCouple. What they posted mirrored my thoughts upon first reading your posting. I too question as Julie did, "Were you swinging prior to meeting each other?" I am also curious as to how your personal sex life with each other is. Do you make love as often as you have since you met each other? Has anything changed in that respect?
Something that comes to mind (I'll have to look for it) was another couple who had a turn about on swinging and sex in general. What it turned out to be after several years of a reluctance to participate in sex was that the female was having discomfort when it came to sex and was afraid to let him know it. Instead what she did was show a complete lack of interest. Eventually the problem was found and their sexual lives returned to normal, (I can't remember if they resumed swinging or not.) This couple was in the 40 plus age group and apparently the problems were not uncommon for older women.
Just something else to think about.
Lori
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