What Canadian Couple said basically mirrors the thoughts taht went through my head when I read your post.
I remember a few years back I had a friend who told me that prior to getting married he and his wife had a great sexual relationship (no swinging involved), but as soon as they got married the sex ended. She even told him after the fact that basically she knew she had to have sex with him to "get him" but now that she had him... it was done.
I guess I have to wonder if that's not what happened here. She knew how important swinging was to you so she agreed to it to keep you.
Did the two of you swing separately prior to getting together or was it something you started after the fact?
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