The Swingers Board - View Single Post - We were swinging while dating, now married and she has changed her mind

DragonsLair · 03-25-2003, 08:22 PM

I agree with CanadianCouple on this one. I don't think she was really into it either. Or does she feel it's a violation of your wedding vows?

I think the best thing you can do is talk about it. But don't pressure her. It may take a while before she can articulate her reasons to you. She might not even understand them now herself. Be patient and very supportive and loving.

Swinging may not be something she wants to do again. Are you willing to give it up for your relationship?

Best of luck with this. Please let us know how things work out for you both.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

03-25-2003, 08:22 PM	#4 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	I agree with CanadianCouple on this one. I don't think she was really into it either. Or does she feel it's a violation of your wedding vows? I think the best thing you can do is talk about it. But don't pressure her. It may take a while before she can articulate her reasons to you. She might not even understand them now herself. Be patient and very supportive and loving. Swinging may not be something she wants to do again. Are you willing to give it up for your relationship? Best of luck with this. Please let us know how things work out for you both. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.