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Originally posted by wereinheat
We are in our 50's and have been married for 8 months. We knew each other and were together most of a year before marriage. Among many other topics we discussed the many facets of swinging many many times and we were in total agreement. We were involved in the life style most of the year we dated and activately participated in full swap swinging. Shortly after the wedding and for various reasons she decided she wanted us out of the life style. All of her reasons were discussed at lenght before and now she seems to have changed her position on each. I totally enjoy swinging and she was well aware of that before and said she felt the same. How much importance should I place on this situation? And if it were you, what would your position be? |
I think a more important question should be, was your wife truly interested in this lifestyle, or was she going along with it until after you two were married? Tough question to ask and even tougher to face in your position, but something seems out of whack here. People who do a sudden about face on anything do so for a reason, and unless there's a pertinent factor in her change of heart you haven't disclosed in your post, I'd be dubious about her having been genuinely into this at all. Sorry, but from this vantage point that's the way it looks to me.
Dan