We tend to ride bareback since we only play with a little group of close friends. We are not much of the club goers, or house parties types so we have a closer relationships where we "appear" to have a reduced risk. Yea I know it is a appearance but not a fact of the math so to speak. We do use condoms when it makes the other couple feel better and relaxed. I have noticed after time that the closer you get to others the less condoms are used as everyone gets more relaxed about the whole thing.
Oh well this topic is always one that causes me to