My recommendation is to talk to him about this and understand what motivates this fantasy. It is my feeling that the idea would turn him on as much as it would you ( at least that is the way he is probably precieving it).
Regarding about him being with another woman. This topic may surface later and that is why communication is very necessary. However I am willing to guess he knows that inviting another woman would make you uncomfortable and is suggesting this because he knows it would bring both of you alot of pleasure.
I would not get to concerned about what is "fair" in this situation. If his suggestion interests you it is my recommendation that you talk to him further about it and any other concerns that you may have about it. I feel he is being genuine with you.
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