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Originally Posted by mosmis84  I had a great time at the club last night, still no couple action, but a nice couple of hours with a single male. It just seems all the couples are in these dark corners and not really out there looking to meet people. |
I'll tell you like my sex guru, otherwise known as my husband lol, tells me:
MICHELLE, YOU HAVE TO BE MORE FORWARD AND GO UP TO COUPLES AND TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED. DO NOT EXPECT FOR HIM TO JUST WALK UP TO YOU BECAUSE THE LIFESTYLE IS FEMALE RUN AND HE IS GOING TO WAIT FOR YOUR MOVE FIRST." LOL. Did you get that? LOL???
Its easier said than done when you are naturally a shy person around new people. Couples are funny things. Remember, you aren't dealing with one person, you are dealing with 2. If you are bi and you are into her, go for it! Yes Jay, I know: Practice what you preach sister. LOL.
Just walk up to them, smile and ask them to dance girlie. You are gorgeous and I guarantee you, you will end up having a good time. Can you be rejected? Yes, rejection is a part of swinging like in dating. However, if you let your personality through you will be good to go...PROMISE.