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tittietwister · 12-02-2007, 10:58 AM

Having been plagued with the same problem twice in a row now and with the latest partner not being very understanding (even though I made her cum) I also thank all for the sound advice.

I would also echo the point that your wife must be supportive and demonstrate that she wants you to have a good time so you won't worry about that. Not being demonstrative about it can be interpreted as not being supportive by overly analytical guys like me. We need a clear signal.

I think just finding an understanding partner who was considerate of the situation and willing to remove the pressure for a touchdown on every play would do wonders to help you and me.

12-02-2007, 10:58 AM	#8 (permalink)
tittietwister Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 143 Location: Not at Swingers Board Status: Couple	Re: Performance Issue Having been plagued with the same problem twice in a row now and with the latest partner not being very understanding (even though I made her cum) I also thank all for the sound advice. I would also echo the point that your wife must be supportive and demonstrate that she wants you to have a good time so you won't worry about that. Not being demonstrative about it can be interpreted as not being supportive by overly analytical guys like me. We need a clear signal. I think just finding an understanding partner who was considerate of the situation and willing to remove the pressure for a touchdown on every play would do wonders to help you and me.