The question has been asked elsewhere on these boards (
example) as to why women and men seem to be different when it comes to confronting and exploring their own (potential) bisexuality. Perhaps it owes something (even a great deal) to the issue of ego.
Is a woman’s self-image less threatened by the prospect of having (and enjoying) sex with another woman? Is that why we
generally seem to find the idea of two women together easier to
deal with than the idea of two men?