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socolais · 11-30-2007, 10:51 PM

Try getting with your wife and playing a little bit "just to prime the pump". Try playing with a woman you REALLY find attractive. Trying different things will give you clues about possible factors. The most difficult advice to accept, is to just relax - it's so easy to say and so difficult to actually do. You'll have to figure out what's causing your issue and develop your own remedy. You have to break the cycle so that you get to the point where you have confidence in your equipment.

Good luck

11-30-2007, 10:51 PM	#3 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	Re: Performance Issue Try getting with your wife and playing a little bit "just to prime the pump". Try playing with a woman you REALLY find attractive. Trying different things will give you clues about possible factors. The most difficult advice to accept, is to just relax - it's so easy to say and so difficult to actually do. You'll have to figure out what's causing your issue and develop your own remedy. You have to break the cycle so that you get to the point where you have confidence in your equipment. Good luck
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