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Old 11-30-2007, 09:33 PM   #2 (permalink)
ShellyM
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Default Re: Performance Issue

Hello! You are experiencing a pretty common problem known as performance anxiety. Number one, do not feel at all bad because it is not your fault. I'm not a man so its hard for me to tell you what to do because I do not know what you are experiencing or thinking. I have been told that Viagra does help and usually after men have used V a few times they simply stop thinking about it and the issue resolves itself...however I would be sure to see your Dr. vs. just taking a pill. Some men also need to be in more private settings. Group play simply is not for everyone. As a woman I would suggest that you simply communicate what is going on with the lady. We don't read minds and so if its just an issue of preferring more privacy I'm sure she would not mind if you said something along the lines of "do you mind if we were somewhere more private". Best of luck, relax and have fun!!!
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