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Originally Posted by foozballnow  For those of you that do go bareback with other couples, be it on a regular basis or with only select people, how did you get started doing bareback? Was it always something you have done since you entered the lifestyle, or something that came over time and experience? |
Like a lot of people just getting started in the lifestyle, when we first started we just assumed everyone would use condoms. As it happened our first couple of full swaps we did just that. Then we met a couple that we really wanted to hook up with and they refused to play with anyone who used condoms. I then started researching STD's for a couple hours a day and after about 2-3 months of research decided that for the types of STD's we were worried about, condoms were all but useless. We also had the problem of Mrs, GT still being fertile at the time though, so at that time we would only play with couples bareback that the husband was fixed, like myself. Then after swinging for a couple of years Mrs. GT had to have an operation and it turned out that the doctor could tie her tubes at the same time. Now since we have no worries regarding pregnancy we only use condoms with those couples that request us to.
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Originally Posted by foozballnow Also, where does the mini-community of bareback swingers tend to ejaculate? Do couples have rules about that or is it generally just done inside the woman? |
I wouldn't say it is a mini-community as well over 50% of the swingers we know either will never play using condoms or consider it optional and only do it when requested. Generally we ejaculate inside the woman.
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Originally Posted by foozballnow Last, how did going bareback change your experiences in the lifestyle, good or bad, assuming you havent been a bareback couple since inception. Thanks for the info |
That is a hard question to answer, sex without condoms is definitely better, but it usually isn't a deciding factor when choosing our playmates. The only time it makes any difference to us is if their are two equally desirable couples to play with and we had to choose one or the other. In that case, we would choose the one who do not require condoms over the one that requires them.