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Old 11-21-2007, 09:22 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: male performance problem?

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Personally, if Jeff and I were to meet up with a couple where the female could full swap, but the man isn't allowed to...we would pass you by. I'm not here to watch my sweetie get his, while we're just sitting by watching and you aren't 'allowed' to fuck me. But that's JMO.
Ok, so I'm quoting myself...

I just wanted to add...if your wife really does have issue with you doing anything besides soft swap/or even touching...yet you have advertised yourselves as the whole enchilada...that is just wrong.

If we're at the club and things don't work out...mkay, there are still other possibilities for the night. If we've met you at a bar/restaurant/hotel...and the clothes come off and THEN we're told the male can't fully participate. Well...we won't be participating either.

Now, if the other female just assumed you were having a case of the jitters and that's why you were having performance anxiety...that is a whole different ballgame.

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