 male performance problem?
My wife and I have been very open minded in our relationship. We began by having a friend film us for no apparent reason having sex... This was a long time friend of mine. (and even had a 3 some with another guy who couldn't perform well) We have made private videos on several occasions. The next step was swinging. We wasted no time... We posted our pictures on an adult web site and was viewed by 70+ couples in less than a day. 24 hours after our post we had a full swap... all involved were sexy and attractive. The other couple has had many experiences before us.... this was our first time and it happened very fast but we felt as if we were ready(there was no convincing on either side). The problem came in where I was unable to get hard for the first time in my freaking life... Let me set the stage here, my wife was right beside me and I had a beautiful woman wanting me... there was a lot going on in a short time and it certainly didn't help that this guy was packing a crazy weapon... How do I prevent this from happening again? was it the situation. It was hot seeing my wife have such a good time but I NEEDED to be involved... It quickly went from the best experience to the worst feeling in the world. My wife never, ever said I could fuck another girl....In fact she has stated many time "that will never happen". that was in my head, he was huge and I felt like I was somehow doing something wrong. Or at the very least was worried about our relationship in the morning... We are moving ahead in our relationship and its as strong as its ever been but if I have another experience where I cannot perform I wont know what the hell to do... all the girls have to do is moan and enjoy, the men have to be hard to play! otherwise if sucks bad.....
someone help me please
CJ
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