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Sounds to me like your main problem is leaving the club at 11:00. While I wish it wasn't so, play rarely gets started before midnight at the clubs we go to. It doesn't do any good to tell people to hurry up if they want some either, I do that every time we play, and we still almost never get to play before midnight. And I too rarely get to play if we have to leave the club before midnight. In fact, I can think of at least two missed opportunities to play we have had in the last month because we left the club at midnight so I could work the next day.

I also wanted to ad that I have very rarely seen people that frequent clubs prefer to chat or email through the ad sites with people before they meet at the club. Most regular club goers go to the club because they find the ad sites a total waste of valuable time. They prefer to get to know people face to face, so they go to clubs.

Another thing to keep in mind is that the idea that a single female is in super high demand at a swingers club is kind of misleading. In the last year we have seen a big rise in the amount of single females visiting the clubs. Where you used to see one at a party once every month or two, we now see two to six single females at the clubs every night they are open. The weird thing to me is, I have noticed that the single females only do slightly better at hooking up with couples than the single males do. It turns out that a majority of swinging couples aren't looking for singles, whether male or female, which surprised me. This does not apply to those single women coming to the club looking for F/F activity only, those still seem to be in high demand. But single women looking to do FMF or FFM seem to do just slightly better then the single males looking for MFM. I only mention this so that you are aware and don't get all discouraged if all the couples don't jump at the chance to hook up with you. You may even have to approach a quite a few couples before you find one that is interested.