 Re: Is it just me?
>have spent hours reading different posts on here, and it’s left me feeling like, either I am a man stuck in a woman’s body or some kind of strange person.
you are not a man stuck in a woman's body!!! that's f'r sure! as f'r being some kind of strange...
aren't we all!
being kind of strange is okay!
>I know that for the most it’s the man who is the main one to introduce the idea of swinging
while men are more likely to be interested in extramarital activity than women, it is NOT (at all!!) unususal for the female to be the motivating partner!!
>always had an outgoing view on sex,
isn't it great to be open and uninhibited!!! isn't it satisfying to enjoy a variety of partners!!!
>My main problem is finding ways to introduce ideas...
there's a proper time for everything. a great idea expressed at the wrong time will have less of an impact than one expressed at the right time and in the proper setting.
>We have done full swap and it was great
your man must be open to idea!!!
>must be greedy because I know deep down I want more.
enjoying good things and sharing happiness is not (always)greedy!! sharing yourself and your man, knowing and caring for others, experiencing joy and passion... is not greedy! it's being ALIVE!!! and open to good things!
>to sit back and watch the two men giving their full attention to the other female, then getting both of their attention, Does that mean I am some sort of pervert?
depends on who you ask!!! depends on who you listen too!!! i don't think someone who enjoys uninhibited passion and adventure with others... is perverted!!! i think folks who are uptight, neurotic, and unable to enjoy life are perverted.
>I’d love to be able to say to my Hubby...
be subtle. be attentive. be loving and turned on. know what excites him... and practice. move slowly, surely, know what you want. engage in erotic adventure... and play him like a man you love. tease him, please him, and lead him to the fruits of your passion! how can he resist??? tell him what you want. touch him like to want. tell him how to touch you. share your energy!!!
>but I really need to find a way of bringing this subject up
refer him to this website!!! have him spend some time reading the posts here!!!
that'll get him thinking about some things!!!
good luck! and have fun!!!
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