 Re: Need some direction
Unregistered,
From what you have said so far, it sounds like all of you have been thinking about this already, or you wouldn’t be joking about it. But as you have said, you don’t have a name for your situation. There probably isn’t one that will fit your situation completely, but that is ok, labels are for soup.
You have said that you have a long history. If that history is sexual in nature, then you probably already have a foundation for discussion. Sometimes it is easier to start discussion on something like this in an e-mail to the other three. Links to poly information which you can find here on this site, and to this site as well. It may seem impersonal, but it will allow you to take your time in putting down what you want to say. It also gives them time to digest what you are suggesting before all four of you discuss it face to face.
Good luck!
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