 Need some direction
We have some close (long time) friends that have turned into more. We all care deeply for one another and we are verging on a true polyamory relationship. All of us have our own insecurities and this thing sorta just came out of no-where, but we all have incredible chemistry and respect, not to mention long history. We have joked about joined living, we see them every weekend and sometimes during the week (all vanilla family stuff). We can't seem to get enough of each other.
There is one issue that is over all and that is what is this that we are all engaged in? Where will the line be drawn between couples? No one has brought up this conversation and I am not sure all even understand this is not unheard of. Also, the dynamic of the group forces both couples and each individual to deal with any emotional insecurity or fears we all may have. Getting the communication going on that level I think is impeded by not having a clear definition. What this is has become is the unknown 800 lb gorialla. I guess we are at a cross road, where everyone is approaching the point of major emotional revilement and investment.
The question is, will everyone need a commitment before we all open up completely and each divulge our deepest fears to the others? OR, does everyone need to have revealed and resolved these fears prior to any kind of commitment?
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