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Old 11-12-2007, 07:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Would you play with vanilla friends who also have lifestyle experience?

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Originally Posted by des1re06 View Post
What if the sex was not what you want it to be? Would they understand that you wanted to move on to other partners, and could you still be friends? If you're going to go through with it, be totally up front and tell her that there will be no hard feelings if either of the couples doesn't want to repeat the sexual experience.


Mrs. D
I agree with Mrs. D here...however, when you play with friends it's not easy to figure out how the chips will fall. Sure everyone may say it's mkay that if someone doesn't want to play again, then no feelings will be hurt.

But feelings probably will be hurt regardless of what was discussed previously. Emotions are funny like that, you can't always determine how you are going to react to something...and being rejected sexually is a pretty personal thing. So while I have played with friends before (i was the third for a couple while we were all in college), I don't know that I would recommend it. For every story like mine that every thing turned out ok and we were still friends afterwards....there are probably many more with just the opposite ending.

Good luck,

Maria
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