[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by TNT

Having been swinging for quite a few years now, it's rare that either Ted or I will experience a "first" in anything....but, I did yesterday.

A while back I met a single gentleman in the local grocery store...we got to talking on that first meet and I gave him our e-mail address so we could chat more privately and set up a possible meet. He e-mailed us once. I've seen him numerous times in the same store since then and we've always chatted a bit...basically about just every day life stuff.

I saw him again yesterday and he apologized to me for not staying in e-mail contact...he came right out and told me.." I chickened out. It's not that I don't want to but I got scared I'd disappoint you and I just don't want you thinking I'm not attracted to you."

I told him it was okay and that it was a scary thing when you were new.

I've had men hit on me before and when I would come back with comments to let them know I was interested, they've disappeared and I've never heard from them again.

This was the first time I've ever had a man admit to me he got scared...by doing so, he made me think very highly of him and that if he ever does decide he wants to really get into swinging, he'll be a very good single male.


Teresa

T,
I agree with you that would have impressed me as well.