Our first experience was for a bi-female. I setup 4 "dates" in one day: breakfast, lunch, dinner, and drinks at a swing club.
Breakfast won! She was an experienced bi lady and they made us laugh, and we felt at ease with them.
We met at their house the next day, and she eased me into the bi play. It was great!
Our first full swap was with 2 couples at our house for a house party. The 6 of us hit it off and we had a great time.
We feel very lucky that both of our "first experiences" went so well. They are all still close friends
Mrs. D