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Originally posted by Harold_N_Ann
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Ann, in particular, is reluctant to enter into any social situation where she may be ridiculed or rejected. She is comfortable with her body among friends and family, but is not truly confident about entering into a potentially intimate circumstance with a fear of rejection. This is, I think, the primary reason we are still sitting on the sidelines.
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That pretty well describes where we are right now ourselves. J isn't too comfortable with herself right now and that's one reason we're not active right now. However, everything I've read here makes me think that she has nothing to worry about. Swingers seem to be a very accepting crowd, by most accounts. Fear of rejection is something we all face and have to overcome in order to meet people. I think it's realistic to believe that you will find someone accepting and compatible if you are patient.
-B