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Originally posted by babydragon
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I remember thinking that I’d love to sit back and watch the two men giving their full attention to the other female, then getting both of their attention, Does that mean I am some sort of pervert?
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Well, if you're a pervert, then we are too. That sounds like fun to us.
So, you say he's been receptive to what you've brought up so far. Maybe you're worrying too much? It sounds like you have a foundation to build on, so keep on stackin' those bricks. Go a little further each time you discuss your fantasies and maybe he'll follow.
He sounds a lot like J, somewhat shy and reserved about sex. Am I right? I've been able to drag a few fantasies out of her over the years (that's why we're here
), but like your husband, for a long time she wouldn't admit to having them. I found that after sex, in the dark, she would open up a bit more and I learned a lot from that pillow talk. Maybe if you can figure out when he's the most relaxed, you can get him to tell you some things.
-B