Best defense is a good offence
, and the best way to answer people that say something is: “So we what. Remember if you do not make a big deal most others won’t ether. We went public on National TV, which resulted in a few people asking a few questions, no judgment. But when asked we said yes we do and it’s between us, if you have questions we will be happy to answer, but don’t judge us and we won’t judge you.
This big news is at least in South Florida no one really cared.
You should also add to your answer we were just curious and doing some research. If my husband (wife) and I are ok with it then it should not matter to you, unless you are curious as well.
Good luck but remember you have nothing to be ashamed of and looking at information on something does not make you guilty. So don’t let any one put you on the defensive.
Small minds will always think small things but that is their problem not yours.