[good times]

We have had sort of a similar experience but it never got that far. We had a couple that we met at the club and over time we got to know them pretty well. One night they asked us to go play with them. I had to make a bathroom stop, so my wife and the other couple went to the room before I did. When I got to the room My wife said, "it isn't going to happen, we're leaving". Turns out when they all got to the room the other guy told my wife that I could do anything I wanted with the woman but he wasn't allowed to have sex with my wife.

In the end we have maintained a good friendship with this couple but we just don't play with them. What it boils down to is that we just aren't sexually compatible with them, that happens, not really that big of a deal to us.