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Originally posted by babydragon
we cant communicate because we can, just he is not as open minded as I am. I seem to spend more and more time fantasying about MMF and FFM, but I really need to find a way of bringing this subject up without saying the wrong thing or explaining it badly.
So far most of the things I asked him about, he’s responded in a good way to but if I ask about if he has any fantasies he’d like to explore, he always says he doesn’t. |
babydragon,
You wrote this very well. Easy to understand. Is it possible that you feel insecure in telling him your thoughts and fantasies, and the fact that he has none, discourages you? Or maybe he is insecure and you are protective of him. I keep thinking that and I may be totally wrong. Forgive me if I am.
I want to advise you to just come out with it. But I don't know your husband, and to steer you that way might be irresponsible. I have written my significant other, email or a letter asking what she thinks. Writing it seems less threatening. Or I sometimes will ask in conversation what she thinks about us doing this or that, and listen very carefully for what clues come out of it. Sometimes the body language will tell you more than what a person actually will say.
Good luck!