Okay everyone! Time for me to finally get to chime in and say what I feel may be important to the post that MrVan started
Havefuninsun was on the target with how I feel. There was definetly an interest on my end with the blonde
and because of that it was something that I wanted to experience as well and not just for him. I do not have a problem with FMF and would love to give MrVan that type of attention with no girl/girl action. However, my point to MrVan that I was trying to get across is that for me it is different as I am bi and I enjoy the girl/girl action as well as my time with the men. So for me I get to enjoy both whereas in a MFM there is no interest for MrVan with the other male cause he does not go that way.
It is not that I would not have an interest in a FMF but finding a woman to help us out with that has been very difficult but hopefully things one of these days will work out and I can prove to MrVan that what he is thinking is way wrong
MrsVan