I too look forward to Mrs Van's response. And I will attempt to make some sense as well.
I am totally open to having a MFM or MFMMMMMMM....ok maybe not so many MMMMM's but you get the idea. However, when presented with a FMF or FMFFFF...I still get a bit of apprehension. Why? I don't know. Can't quite put my finger on it. It's not jealousy, but the thought of it doesn't take me to my happy place I guess (does that make sense? it's just a general feeling of apprehension...like a 'welllll, i don't know.....').
Would I do it? If things felt right. I don't like things to feel too staged or feel pressure about it, I guess. Kind of like the night you describe when you went to the club and the Mrs. was dancing with the blonde and all seemed to be going well. Things were kind of happening on their own and she probably didn't feel like she was 'on the prowl' for a female for the two of you so she was more comfortable in that setting....rather than being on the hunt and feeling pressure to make it happen. But that is just speculation on my part and I do not presume to speak for Mrs. Van.
Last night I ended up the 3rd in a FMF...the other wife wanted to watch and we both ended up touching and playing with him, but did not play with each other. (I describe myself as straight....but in reality tend to be more bi-passive with a female I feel comfortable with...or if they want to go down on me or whatever, that's fine...but I don't go seeking it and I don't advertise myself as bi.) So it can happen without any f/f interaction...but most of us women operate under the assumption that if there are 2 of us and 1 of you then you guys want to see the girls at the very least kissing and maybe fondling each other.
Maybe spell out specifically what you want to happen? You laying there with one riding you and you eating the other...or Mrs. Van leaning over you so you can play with her breasts and use your fingers while the other female is sucking/riding you? I guess some of it is logistical....who is doing what so that it doesn't turn into someone having to sit on the sidelines watching the action.
Sorry for the long reply....
Maria
