Ok, so MrsVan and I went out to a club last night, just a vanilla club with a live band. We had been at this club once before with some other friends and that night we ran into a super hot blonde. MrsVan was dancing with our friend and the blonde came over and started dancing with them. At first it was just normal dancing but quickly turned into some serious grinding between MrsVan and the blonde! I got into the action a little bit during the evening dancing with the ladies or just with the blonde, but for the most part just let MrsVan have her fun.
This continued for most of the evening and at the end of the night when it was time to leave MrsVan went over to say good bye. While MrsVan was leaving I overheard the blonde give MrsVan a super compliment that she was "Smokin Hot"
So MrsVan and I have joked over the past few months of going back to the club to see if we can meet up with said blonde again. One night I mentioned we could head over but MrsVan was unable to play for various reason and she commented to me that she wouldn't be able to do anything even if we met up with her AND if she was interested. This got us to talking last night about the differences between a MFM, FMF and FFM.
My impression during the conversation was that it was ok for us to participate in MFM even though I am not bi and clearly only participate with MrsVan. This is fine and we both enjoy MFMs, but the idea of an FMF was received with mixed feelings.
I asked her what the difference was and her comment was that she wouldn't be able to participate with the other lady. She was really confused as to why I would want to participate in an FMF and not in an FFM. To me it wasn't an either/or situation, it was just if the opportunity presented itself where a lady was interested in have a 3some but no girl/girl play I would be interested and that I didn't see how that was any different than an MFM.
Ultimately we never really did see this eye to eye and I don't think she quiet understood what I was trying to explain.
Now the multiple adult beverages and music going on during this conversation might have had a little bit to do with our misunderstandings.
Sorry for the long, rambling post. All that was so I could ask. Does anyone see there being a difference between an MFM and FMF other than the combination?
Did I explain this right?
Enough ramblings...what do you think?
-Van