The best advice that I can give is patience is the key here. Even those that are the ideal age/weight etc.... have problems finding others that are compatible to their specifications.
Having been to several clubs, and a house party, we have met people of all sizes, shapes, color...etc. We have also had some that were attracted to us and us to them in each setting.
Age and weight have never been a factor in any social setting that we have seen. If you are comfortable with yourself, regardless of your perceived appearance or size, you'll make many friends, that is if you extend the hand to do so.
Lori
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