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Originally posted by BradAndJanet
Well, we're 44 (in a month) and 45. Not quite as "mature" as you, I suppose, and we may not fit your description  We've had one experience, so I would say we're relative newbies. I don't think it's that unusual. It's an interesting question though; what prompted you to ask?
-B |
I guess the reason for the question is basically:
Will we be able to find couples to play with? In addition to being "over the hill" we are both large people, although attractive and sexual. Most couples we have chatted with are much younger and more fit and many of the ads we read are looking for younger, fit couples.
Ann, in particular, is reluctant to enter into any social situation where she may be ridiculed or rejected. She is comfortable with her body among friends and family, but is not truly confident about entering into a potentially intimate circumstance with a fear of rejection. This is, I think, the primary reason we are still sitting on the sidelines.
We know that nothing is certain in life, but we both want to have a realistic expectation of acceptance. This is a very exciting but also scary journey we are on the verge of undertaking.
We have found this site to be of great help in providing a much clearer picture of what the swinging lifestyle is and can be. No other place have we been able to get such personal insight from so many.
Thanks for previous answers and those to come.