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Originally Posted by Reef99  Definately meet in public. If this guy is interested he will meet you in public. There is NO WAY I would go to his home. You have no idea what may happen when you get there. |
Agreed. I mean though, a woman can be raped in a hotel room just as well as in an apartment if the guy is a lunatic. I think that its just more personal...I'm NOT being his girlfriend for the night lol, I'm there to have a great time sexually...use his body as he uses mine for a while and go home with or to my husband and children...my husband is the one that I want to reap the real benefits. Jay and I have an absolute rule that we do NOT snuggle or spoon with play partners after play. I'll lay there talking with you and I'll give you a kiss to say thank you. But I am not falling asleep in your arms, that to us is the ultimate in intimacy. This is our most steadfast rule in swinging.