We have been swinging for a couple years. We have been with four other couples and attended one house party. Most of the events have been good--we really enjoyed the house party! We have been on a slight break because of our schedules.
Lately, the wife has been increasingly interested in trying out some form of a gang bang. She liked being the center of attention of multiple men at the house party. So, she'd like to recreate the situation only this time she would be the complete center of attention for an evening.
While we each like the idea, we are concerned about the logistics of setting something up. We don't think that any of the couples that we have played with would allow their male halves to play alone. Maybe one, but we have yet to ask.
Anyway, we are interested in any advice others have about how best to recruit the guys.
We are reluctant to rely upon singles on ad sites for a couple reasons. Mainly, we have run into so many phonies that we feel we would have to meet them all in advance to "screen" them. That would take a lot of time which we frankly do not have with our busy schedules. Further, we understand from others that for every one that says they will show and actually does you will get two who will say that they will and won't.
We are thinking about attending a meet and greet and recruiting a group of unattached males or males who have permission to play separately for the gig. Has anyone else tried this approach?
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