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Originally Posted by good times  This is an interesting question because it touches on something we have run into lately.
The problem is that our local clubs have been overrun in the last year or so by what we call non-swingers, those are people who like the sexually charged atmosphere of the swingers club, but have no interest in playing with anyone else. The result of this is that the swingers who like to play with others have now stopped attending the clubs regularly.
So to answer your question, while we don't hold it against anyone personally and have even made some good friends with these people that are non-swingers, I have to admit that, yes, it is becoming very discouraging to us. Even to the point that we will meet someone and while smiling on the outside, be thinking, "oh no, not another one" on the inside. |
I have to admit that I agree with you on this....this is why we do not really go to clubs very much lately. I know in our experience when we go, if we are getting busy in the playroom I look up and 15 people are standing there watching us. Nothing wrong with that, but I started to feel like an exhibit in a zoo lol. I agree. We go to swing, in that we go to swap. Whether that is full swap or soft...and there are couples who go and just sit there in their seats. I just don't understand why they pay so much money to go into the club and then don't even dance lol. But hey, to each their own. But I agree, it has become discouraging to us as well...we still have fun though.