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Originally Posted by TNTCouple  Definately an option. But I get really self-conscious at others watching me. I'm not an exhibitionist. I need to desensitize or something which brings us to your next comment...
I never even considered this. I'm definately more comfortable when it's just the group of friends over at each other's house. We play strip poker or strip pool so getting naked in front of them isn't too big of a deal for me anymore like it was in the beginning. It's just we usually leave before the heat really gets turned up. I'm just not ready. They don't seem to mind though because they keep including us. We do have a ton of fun together. |
It's good that they keep including you, just keep at your comfort level.
The club you go to, are there private play areas (not just one big common room)? Maybe try having sex in one of those first. The club we normally go to has a few of them, but they are on the same hallway as the common room. So you can kind of get used to having 'traffic' coming by, without necessarily being exposed.
We went usually go do naked time at the lake or beach a few times a year. It can be a real ego boost (where we go there are definitely more guys than girls, but most of them are very polite and don't do what I would call a blatant ogle, discreet glances at best) and it really is a no pressure situation. While nudism doesn't necessarily lead to swinging, it can help you get more comfortable in nothing more than your own skin (and like going to the club and not playing to see if you like it...you can keep your clothes on...as I tell one of my friends 'clothing optional means you have the option to leave them on!'...so she will go with us now and then, she never gets naked, but is ok that we do).
Good luck
Maria
