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Originally Posted by sexcupid  Have you considered just doing same room sex. (For me, and most others, soft swap is allowing others to touch and get oral, but penetration just from your SO.) Just go to the play room and have a good time with each other. No one else touching you or anything, just enjoying your hubby or boyfriend. That way you get a little comfortable with being naked/having sex with others around...but you aren't specifically feeling pressure to play with others per se. |
Definately an option. But I get really self-conscious at others watching me. I'm not an exhibitionist. I need to desensitize or something which brings us to your next comment...
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Originally Posted by sexcupid Or maybe you could try a nudist beach to get comfortable being naked in a more public setting? For most nudists, being naked isn't necessarily a sexual thing it's just natural. So maybe trying the naked in public in a non-sexually charged context would work better? |
I never even considered this. I'm definately more comfortable when it's just the group of friends over at each other's house. We play strip poker or strip pool so getting naked in front of them isn't too big of a deal for me anymore like it was in the beginning. It's just we usually leave before the heat really gets turned up. I'm just not ready. They don't seem to mind though because they keep including us. We do have a ton of fun together.